tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8091046024340388855.post3346400212612297112..comments2024-01-12T00:44:07.614-08:00Comments on Time For Serenity: An Angry ACOD RespondsSerenityhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01758325202841160603noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8091046024340388855.post-83956326090976876272012-03-19T05:21:05.051-07:002012-03-19T05:21:05.051-07:00Kat,
I can understand how you would be angry at yo...Kat,<br />I can understand how you would be angry at your father for having an affair and also for leaving a financial burden on others, and probably anger at him because you were left to care and be worried by the financial situation , when it appears he wasn't concerned. It is difficult to express anger to a parent if you are not accustomed to it, or if you were not freely allowed to do so in the past. Expressing your anger is important. How you do it is important too. I have learned that I can feel angry at my father and at the same time feel sympathy for him. I feel sorry for him in many ways and understand how you feel like that. You can feel both and express both things at the same time I think. Working your anger out is important. Keep working at doing that.Good to hear from you. Thanks for your comments.Serenityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01758325202841160603noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8091046024340388855.post-42159437682569173742012-03-16T09:40:21.250-07:002012-03-16T09:40:21.250-07:00Im still angry at my Dad for having a 3 year affai...Im still angry at my Dad for having a 3 year affair and leaving my mum and little sister in obscene amounts of debt. He moved away and in with his woman and expected us all to get over it. However every time I try to express this too him I am overcome by some kind of ill placed sympathy for him. I dont honestly think he feels sorry for himself so why do i feel sorry for him! Its all very confusing. I will eventually work my anger out I hope!Katnoreply@blogger.com