The Prodigal Parent
Many adult children of divorce have prodigal parents. Today I re-read Luke 15: 11- 32 which is given the heading "The parable of the Lost Son" or "The parable of the Prodigal Son" . Jesus told this story as a response to religious leaders as they questioned why Jesus was speaking to an audience of "sinners". The story illustrates a father welcoming a wayward son home, just as God welcomes a humble, repentant man or woman back into fellowship with him after they have strayed. If you are an adult child of divorce you likely have a lost or prodigal parent. They leave, go off on their own , and pursue their own lives and pleasures. Often we, as children, are left to wait. We have to let them go. Sometimes this means distance, sometimes estrangement. We wonder if they will ever "come to their senses" as the son in the parable does. We hope for that and pray for that and we wait. And we hurt. In the book "Parenting your Adult Chi